Did this ever happen to you? Sitting down with friends, talking about this and that. All of a sudden from behind a question snaps. ”Where is this or that?”…’Uh, I don’t know’… Stab! Stab! “What’s wrong with you!?…So absent minded bla bla bla.”…stab, stab, stab! The door shuts, manhood drops into a dark, dark abyss. Finding counsel in a friends married over 10 years has made me realize we all have stories of castration. I guess this might be the natural story of man and woman. But the stabs hurt. I’m like a deer frolicking in the woods maimed for it’s fur. AHHHH!!!!!!!!
Thats happened to me a couple of times but other words run in my mind
Those snaps in temper are little pressure valves… the temper is already stretched over something not being spoken of or cleared up… so little things cause it to snap in minor and repeated ways. hmmm… =(
lol… “Idk”? uh oh.
stabs and snaps are all causal effects of the life experience, and love….the real question is , is it worth it? to be peeled apart and maimed?
worth it? yes… love is worth a great deal… worth it to find better ways of communication and eliminate the bad energy causing the stabs… eliminate the peeling and maiming… a good woman (or a good man) is definitely worth it.
=)
I agree with Tresalyn. You know my situation…I have been the stabber and on the receving end of the stab. Sharing a household with someone leads to a lot of aggravation. I don’t mind my own crap, but don’t ask me to put up with your crap. But the alternative is being alone.
I stopped putting my man’s clothes away b/c he’d always come to mre asking, “Where’s this?” Sometimes you just have to compromise.
On the other hand, I am sorry you are hurt. You’re a sensitive soul
Im sorry you were “bobbitized” but sometimes women just have those kind of days- shes just letting off steam, you know she still loves you!
At least most of the serial female stabbers strike at the same time every month. With the male stabbers, you never know when to expect it and what was motivating it – did they forget to have lunch? Did someone steal their parking space?