TV networks are introducing falls  lineup in full force.   Everywhere you look you see an ad for this show and that show.  I’ve never had the time to watch much television in the past, but this year I’m especially excited.  Why?  Because of a colleague of mine Daniel Dae Kim and his new show Hawaii Five-O!    I met Daniel in the mid nineties when I use to wait tables,  he and his wife would  frequent the restaurant I worked at.  We would chat about this and that, he was always very cool and always very grounded.  Daniel had just moved to LA from New York and was well on his way to becoming a working actor.  The thing people knew him from was a hilarious Cheese commercial where he played a state trooper, it aired every other minute  on every channel back then.  It was really cool to see an Asian guy in a funny non-stereotypical spot.   I saw him as an actor that had made it!  Funny I thought that back then.  ’Making it’  to me was just being on TV back then.

Out of the countless number of actors I have met over the years, I consider Daniel as one of the few that really has ‘made it’.  When I say ‘made it’, it’s not in the obvious career sense, but who is as a person.  He makes me happy to be an actor, he makes me want to be a better person, he reminds me to have humility, he reminds me to have a smile about it all.   For myself Daniel has always been a great example to follow.  Not just in work but in the journey as a man.  A loving father, a loyal husband and a sincere soul.  A wonderful representative of an Asian American actor for Hollywood to use as a bar.

Life is pretty black and white,  it’s easy to fall into the habit of looking at the world through a grey lens.  When I feel a bit grey about things, I think about people like Daniel.  Life seems fair then.  Love what you do, work hard at what you do, be a good person and things  work out.  Life is fair!  Life looks a lot more Black and White.  When so many  act like A-holes, life can seem grey, but think about it.   A-holes are seen as A-holes, successful or not. Rich or Poor.  Hot or Not.  A-holeness inspire others to be shit.  That’s not success, that’s …well, just shit!  People like Daniel are loved and respected for who they are not because he’s on some TV show.  Now isn’t that really making it!

Driving around town and seeing Daniel’s billboards make me so happy and so very hopeful.  The success of his show will only help all of us who strive to make a living as an actor.  What a wonderful ambassador to have out there.  I can’t but help root for him every time I see his mug.  Much success and happiness to him!  Hope all of you enjoy his show!