Annika is a 28 year old Cambodian Vietnamese Chinese French American who recently returned to school to finish a bachelor’s degree in computer science and linguistics. Her hobbies and interests include swimming, cooking, baking, writing, reading, math, symbolic logic, learning foreign languages, and drinking espresso – and of course, boys.
“We haven’t had sex in two weeks,” he said.
Indeed. We have not.
It was late January of 2007. I was dating a boy named “David” while living in San Diego. We had been together for all of four months and already, the relationship had begun deteriorating beyond repair.
He had anger control problems.
He also had substance abuse problems (alcohol, painkillers).
He also had major jealousy problems which was, unfortunate, as I had mostly male friends (and I swear, I don’t sleep with them).