This last Tuesday, we the people, in order to form a more perfect union, headed to the polls for our mid-term elections. Estimates vary, but something like 35% of us eligible voters actually turned out (in war torn Ukraine, 60% of voters made a point of casting their ballots). So I was feeling pretty good about the “I Voted” sticker I wore on my shirt when I went to work afterwards. There I ran into my manager Diana, who, I’m guessing, is in her mid-twenties. I asked if she had voted yet.
(10 days ago – after 18 wonderful years – we dropped our son off at college; it is still too raw for me to write about the day itself, but I wanted to share with you the letter I stuck in his hand as I hugged him goodbye and tried not to let him see the tears welling in my eyes)
(above: on the drive over….below: 18 years before the drive over…)
My dearest Rafael,
I’m sitting in the London apartment we rented, and am just beginning a letter which I will give you when you leave home for college.
This will be a random laundry list of thoughts – but you are not allowed to throw them away! (I WILL check!) Read more...
Today I’d like to address a sensitive subject: childhood thievery.
Not kids being stolen off the street or depressing crap like that, but the stuff you stole as a child (and please, do not tell me you never took a five-finger discount when you were a kid).
Let’s use a cut-off age of ten years old.
I remember stealing two things: packs of gum (various, but especially Bubble Yum) and the fancy metal caps off car tire valves. They were the “hip” thing to have for your bicycle tires, and I didn’t have the money for them. Soooooo….I cruised the parking lot of Sears until I found a car with shiny silver valve caps, crouched down, and stole a pair for my bike. Read more...
There are many ways to identify douchebags: their open shirts, their indoor sunglasses, their liberal use of hair product, but what about their parking habits?
I hate people who park in other people’s reserved spaces. That whole sense of entitlement, of thinking the rules don’t apply to you. Ugh. And then there are those people who straddle the yellow dividing lines, hogging up two spots. And don’t get me started on the goons who park illegally in handicapped spots – in my book, you’ve just booked a seat on the karmic express to hell.
So why on earth did I receive this charming letter the other day? Read more...
He was standing against the wall, beer in hand, talking to a much younger blonde woman. But it was getting late, and I was tired – if I wanted that autograph, I had to make my move.
Jello Biafra (former front man for the Dead Kennedys, political prankster and activist, founder of Alternative Tentacles Records, and all around punk rock royalty) was DJ-ing at my little dive bar, The Ruby Room, and I had vowed I would get the man to sign a couple of records. I felt okay about this: after all, I had restrained myself from bringing ALL six of the LP’s I own, not to mention the handful of 45’s.
In the city where I live, there is a spit of land by the shoreline where people take their dogs on walks, let their children get their feet wet, and where an estimated 30 homeless people are living.
Just this week, the city reached a settlement with the homeless, agreeing to pay each of them $3000 in return for a promise that they leave and not return to the property, which is owned by the city.
The legal issue is federal and state disability laws and Fourth Amendment property protections (which include shopping carts filled with stuff), versus the city’s “anti-camping” ordinance, the city’s way to prevent the homeless from squatting.
The woman in this photo is being re-tried on animal abuse charges. Her name is Jan Van Dusen.
Just around the corner from our house there is a “crazy cat lady house.” It’s tucked behind wild, unmanaged shrubs, the paint on the modest bungalow is peeling, and there are usually three or four cats – no collars – wandering through the front yard. I’ve never seen the owner of the house, but we have good reason to suspect that our cat, Spunky, who we found abandoned in our backyard with part of the umbilical cord still attached and her eyes still shut, looking like a rat or tiny ewok, might be the offspring of one of the cat lady’s cats.
So: should crazy cat ladies with too many cats be arrested for animal abuse? Read more...
Well, to be more precise, let’s call it one middle aged man hanging out with three thirteen year old boys–wait–that sounds–okay, basically, it was a dad taking his thirteen year old son and his son’s two friends out for dinner at a gastropub-ish place called Rocca’s.
I went for the vinyl, I stayed for the awesomeness.
The Oakland Museum of California is having an exhibit on vinyl records, so naturally I had to go and compare my collection to theirs. That show turned out to be a bit of a bust for me, but right next to it, ten steps away in another wing of the building, was a show I hadn’t heard of: