First half of Fast5 is over. I landed back home in Atlanta yesterday and have been staying with my oldest Aunt and uncle. Both are in their late 70′s. Both have lived hard and worked hard to fufill their American dream. As a kid I couldn’t appreciate who my aunt and uncle were. I saw them as non English speaking old people that fumbled their way around getting in the of my way coolness. They didn’t understand the ways of the land.   All they did was tell me what to do and eat smelly korean food.
Twenty years later, I speak Korean. I appreciate the complexity of smelly Korean food. Most importantly  I admire what my aunt and uncle had to go through to make a living in this country.
Hanging out with them puts my worries and concerns into perspective. Pretty much all my concerns are high class problems  that most people wish they had.  Hanging out with them makes me feel like I need to work harder and save more. Work and save not for myself, but for my future kids. What I’ve come to realize is people like my aunt and uncle are the most selfless.  They endured all the bs so their kids and grandkids can have a shot in life they never could imagine. I use to think success was all about money and position. I see a different version of what success is. I have my aunt and uncle to thank for that.

Adios party people.